From England to Oregon...
A Christmas interview with Pastor Samuel Aldridge of Willamina FMC ~~ Published as "Holiday Traditions - All about Hope" by News Register Journalist, Starla Pointer
The Christmas season is a busy time for a minister. By Dec. 25,
Willamina Free Methodist Pastor Sam Aldridge is usually worn
out.
But that neither dampens his enjoyment of the season, nor the
hope it gives him.
“It’s one of my favorite times of the year,” he said. “It’s about a
God who looks at all this bad stuff going on and says, ‘I’m going
to come and start the work of saving you.’”
He recited one of his favorite passages, Luke 2:29-32. In the
New International Version of the Bible, the quote says:
“Lord, as you have promised, you may now dismiss your servant
in peace. For my eyes have seen your salvation, which you have
prepared in the sight of all nations: a light for revelation to the
Gentiles, and the glory of your people Israel.”
“That so beautifully captures the waiting, seeing the gift God
has given us, the hope,” he said. “For me, this season is all
about hope.”
Aldridge marks Christmas both in church and at home. He and
wife, Rachael, have a tree, which Bramble, their youngest cat,
joyfully tries to un-decorate. They visit her family in California
some years, and spend a quiet holiday in Oregon others.
Wherever they are, there is sure to be Christmas pudding.
For Aldridge, who grew up in England and attended college in
Wales, it wouldn’t be Christmas dinner without the dense,
steamed fruitcake.
“I like it!” he said. “But I realize it’s an acquired taste.”
His mother mails several from England so he will be able to
indulge his taste, as well as good memories from previous
Christmases.
During his youth in Wakefield, an economically depressed coalmining
town in West Yorkshire, Aldridge and his family
celebrated a church-focused holiday.
“For me, life was built around the structure of the church,” he
said.
His dad was the town doctor, and his mother a gardener and
florist at the local stately home. Now retired, they split their
time between Yorkshire and Portugal.
The family belonged to the Church of England. There is no
separation between church and state in England, Aldridge said;
“the Church of England is the state.”
Every village has a C of E church “there to serve everyone,”
whether they participate in religious activities or not, he said.
The Aldridges attended a candlelight service in the village
church at midnight on Christmas Eve and a Christingle Service
at 9 a.m. Christmas day.
Christingle, popular in England, refers to a candle placed in an
orange, which serves as a holder. The orange is wrapped in red
to symbolize blood. Raisins and other dried fruit, representing
the fruits of God’s promise, decorate the exterior of the orange,
which symbolizes the world.
In addition to services and activities at the village church, the
holidays also are marked by Christmas specials on TV. Football
(soccer) matches are played on Boxing Day, Dec. 26.
Yorkshire’s population includes numerous emigrants from
India and Pakistan, Aldridge said, so the lights around town
celebrate both Christmas and Diwali, the Hindu festival of
lights.
In fact, Aldridge said, lights were placed in November for Diwali,
and Christmas symbols were added as December arrived.
For both holidays, the lights illuminated gloomy nights. Just like
the late fall and winter Aldridge now experiences in Oregon,
Yorkshire’s holiday season was usually “45 degrees and rainy,”
he said.
“I never had a white Christmas when I was growing up,” he
said.
Home from church services, young Aldridge and his family
members exchanged presents. They shared the Christmas feast
of turkey with potatoes, peas and carrots. And, of course, the
Christmas pudding, steamed, then “drowned in brandy and
lighted on fire in the middle of the table.”
The Aldridges burned an advent candle at home each Sunday
leading up to Dec. 25. On Christmas Eve, they decked out the
whole house.
Decorations remained on display through Jan. 6, Epiphany, or
the 12th Day of Christmas, when the Wise Men were said to
arrive with gifts for the Christ child.
“I enjoyed decorating the house,” he said, recalling those
boyhood Christmases.
His family had two Christmas trees. His mother and older sister
were in charge of one. “They made it sophisticated,” he said.
He and his other sister — the two youngest members of the
family — decorated the other with tinsel, cartoon ornaments
and whatever they could find. “A tic-tac tacky, cheap tree,” he
said, yet they were proud of their accomplishment.
Since they had a coal stove, not a wood-burning replace, the
children hung stockings on their bedroom doors.
But their mother usually handed Santa pillowcases, instead,
when he arrived to deliver gifts. She knew Santa “could t a lot
more into pillowcases than stockings,” he said.
These days, Aldridge and wife would need five pillowcases, or
stockings, for Christmas: one for him, one for Rachael and three
for the pets, Abigail, the dog, and Bramble and Gracie, the cats.
“They get Christmas treats,” he said of the pets. Especially
Abigail, who resembles a fuzzy Jack Russell-mix. “She’s my
little princess,” he said of the lap dog, who often accompanies
him to church.
Aldridge, 31, was assigned to the Willamina church in April 2018.
Previously, in his first lead pastor position, he spent 2 1/2 years
with the Falls City Free Methodist Church.
He also worked in McMinnville for a while when a church was
being planted there, and before that, at Newberg Free
Methodist.
He joined the Newberg church while studying for the ministry at
George Fox University’s seminary.
The Free Methodist denomination is similar in theology to the
United Methodist Church, Aldridge said. Both are related to the
Methodist churches of Britain and Northern Ireland.
They share a common ancestor, but the Free Methodists broke
o in 1860 over the issue of slavery, he said.
“The church still has a strong abolitionist stance around the
world,” he said.
Although he now is a Free Methodist pastor and grew up in the
Church of England, Aldridge attended a Roman Catholic grade
school, then a Quaker (Friends) boarding school.
After finishing the equivalent of high school, he enrolled at the
University of Wales — not to study religion, but to earn a
bachelor’s degree in music.
On a break from the university, he traveled to the U.S. to work at
a Salvation Army summer camp near Eatonville, Washington.
He’d been to North America previously, visiting Arizona and
spending time as an exchange student in New York City.
At Camp Arnold in 2008, Aldridge met Rachael, a young woman
from a Salvation Army family. After he returned to England,
they dated long-distance for two years, sometimes flying back
and forth.
They also used Skype, in its infancy then, he said. But their love
endured despite frozen computer screens and an eight-hour
time difference.
He moved to the U.S. on a fiancé visa on April 27, 2011, and they
were married June 11, a couple days past Rachael’s 20th
birthday.
The choice of wedding dates was a one, he said, explaining, “It
helps me remember our anniversary.”
Rachael Aldridge is executive director of the Oregon Coast
Scenic Railroad, based in Garibaldi.
She started as a volunteer and worked her way up to leadership
of the nonprofit, which is dedicated to preserving logging
railroads. OCSR runs a steam locomotive fleet on daily
excursions in summer and “Candy Cane Express” rides in
December.